Thursday, November 19, 2009

Preparing for a Step 11 day


Back To Basics www.aabacktobasics.com again (referencing AA's big book and What is The Oxford Group-an anonymously written text, 1933, where much of the information for the writing of this step 11 came from originally)


Text Suggestions:

Before retiring we review our day. Were we resentful, selfish, dishonest or afraid? Do we owe an apology? Have we kept something to ourselves which should be discussed with another person at once? Were we kind and loving toward all? What could we have done better? Were we thinking of ourselves most of the time? Or were we thinking of what we could do for others, of what we could pack into the stream of life?


On awakening let's consider the 24 hours ahead....Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives.

Again we see the sequence being taught, pray and then listen and NOW WRITE WRITE WRITE. The Oxford Group said do this so that we may record every God-given thought and idea that comes during our time alone with Him, that no detail, however small, may be lost to us and that we may not shirk the truth about ourselves or any problem, when it comes to us. As always we test our thoughts to ensure they are not our will-are they unselfish honest pure and loving. If not do not act upon them!
THESE PIONEERS SHOW US AGAIN AND AGAIN THAT PRAYER WORKS:
"OH LORD HELP US TO PRAY, TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOU AND BUILD OUR REALITY OF YOUR EXISTENCE IN OUR LIVES. MAY WE SEE YOUR WILL FOR EACH OF US TODAY AND MAY WE HAVE THE COURAGE TO SHARE IT THAT AN OTHER'S LOAD BE LESSENED-AMEN!"
ARRANGE TO TAKE THE 12 STEPS TO FREEDOM WITH US!
12 Steps to Spiritual Recovery!
1- We admitted we were powerless over others-that our lives had become unmanageable.
2- Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3- Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of that Power.
4- Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5- Admitted to this Power, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6- Were entirely ready to have this Power remove all these defects of character.
7- Humbly asked the Power to remove our shortcomings.
8- Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
9- Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10- Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
11- Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with this Power, praying only for knowledge of His/Her will for us and the power to carry that out.
12- Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
(Many 12 step programs use the word God where we have written Power)





Various Claims of Promise from 12 Steppers

1-We will find ourselves worthy of love and able to love others. We will not lose ourselves.

2-Courage and fellowship will replace fear.

3-Our lives will yield hope to share with others.

4-We will come to know the vastness of our emotions without being in slavery to them.

5-Learning to forgive, we will no longer be bound by our secrets to live in shame.

6-Serenity and peace will have meaning for us.

7-We will allow our lives and the lives of those we love to flow day by day with spiritual ease, balance and grace.

8-Attitude and outlook will be renewed.

9-Intuition will guide us to handle situations that were impossible in the past.

10-We will not regret the past recognizing its value for other sufferers.

11-Selfish interests will fall away as we gain interest in others.

12-Faith and gratitude will replace fear as we realize that a Greater Power is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.

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